life, love and happines

Overcome Your Doubts Before Marriage

2009-12-07T19:43:00.000+07:00

A survey shows that there is no bride who 100 percent ready for marriage. Most of them always have a doubts feeling near the marriage days. So, before you decide to get marriage, it is a good idea if you know what are the causes of doubt who usually the bride feel as list below :

Not sure that he is the right person for you

Problem :

The doubt about his loyalty and the fear feeling of marriage failure in the future while you want your marriage only once for life.

Solution :

Think again carefully whether he is the right guy for you? and if you are still in doubt, write it down the criteria of your ideal future husband and when it meets more than 50 percent of your criteria, that means he is ideally enough to be your husband.

Always argued before the due time (Day D)

Problem :

You already sure that he is a ideal future husband but before of day D you are more often have loggerheads with him and it causes the doubt that he is not your soul mate whereas every person surely have the experience like this because of the tension and differences of opinion in preparation of the wedding.

Solution :

Calm your mind and take a moment for a while to remind you what made you want to marry him. Always remember the good site of him as long as the differences can still be tolerated.

Fear of loosing freedom if married

Problem :

Many people think that freedom will be lost after marriage, it is also one cause cancellation of the marriage.

Solution :

Do not ever see the marriage just from one negative side but see it from a different perspective, such as : you are not alone anymore in face a problem, you have someone who can share the joys and sorrows, you have someone who can be relied on in your life, you will no longer feel lonely and many other good thing you can see through the marriage.

Know The Signs Of Your Soul Mate

2009-12-03T22:18:00.000+07:00

In order to make you feel sure that he is the best and most appropriate for you, below are a few signs you should know :

Sign 1

Being what he is, relaxed, genuine, spontaneous in speaking or act in front of you. That's the signs of your soul mate.

Sign 2

The existence of inner contacts makes your heart both could always knew each other and both of you could read each other's thoughts, reactions and feelings in certain situations. That's the signs of your soul mate.

Sign 3

You and him can always help each other, whether small or big work. Have a sense of sharing and enjoying all aspects of life together. That's the signs of your soul mate

Sign 4

With him, you feel relaxed, comfortable without feeling distressed, never feel bored when you near him. It's also call the signs of your soul mate

Sign 5

He was always there for you in any situations, in joy and sorrow. That's the signs of your soul mate

Sign 6

He didn't care about your or your family past. He also didn't shy to tell of his past. That's the signs of your soul mate because he can accept you as you are.

Sign 7

The signs of your soul mate is if you feel you could no longer keep any secrets from him.

Sign 8

Every person surely have a weakness and you not shy to show it to him. Even when you look very...very ugly when you wake up or when you are sick and have no bath for about two or three days. That's the signs of your soul mate.

So, if you find the signs as mention as above, certainly, he is your soul mate.

Wise Word About Love

2009-11-24T22:12:00.000+07:00

God give us two legs to walk, two hands to hold, two ears to hear and two eyes to see. But why God only give us a piece of heart? Because God has given us another pieces of heart to someone looking for us, that's the name of love.

True love is when he loves someone else, and you are still able to smile and say "I'm happy for you".

The feeling of love starts from the eye while feeling of likes start from the ears. So, if you want to stop liking someone, just closing your ears but if you try to close your eyes from the people you love it will turn into a teardrop and continue to live within your heart for a long time.

Do not try to say goodbye when you still want to try. Do not give up if you feel you can. Do not say you do not love him anymore if you still can not forget him.

It is hurt to love someone who does not love you but more painful is if you love someone and you never have a courage to tell or express your feeling to him.

You know that you really miss someone when you think about your heart shattered and just by hearing the word of "Hi" from him can reunite the pieces of your heart.

How To Attract Someone That You Love

2009-11-23T19:28:00.000+07:00

Once you know the signs of someone when falling in love (as I wrote earlier on Signs On Love) and what steps you should do to get he/her love?

Beautiful or handsome is not a guarantee to be able to get the love of someone you love. The following are the love tips that maybe useful for you to get he/her love :

Know the hobbies, his like or dislike.
Keep your clothing and body clean, that's the important thing you should have.
Friendly, do not be arrogant, be someone who is humble and friendly who can put themselves in surrounding environment.
Keep your words and behavior in the intercourse.
Be a smart person by expand your knowledge so you have a large confidence in the intercourse.
Display your beauty and behavior from the heart.

If you already have all the characteristics above, there are more thing you need to consider especially if you are the God creature who name women, never to chase a man to get his attention or love because it will humble yourselves that also will give the impression

And if you are the God creature who name man, if you love someone just say it right away before everything become too late.

I hope this love tips will be useful for you...Good luck !!!!!!

Signs Of Love

2009-11-19T21:51:00.005+07:00

Love....nobody can avoid that feeling. Love will feel wonderful when two person have the same feelings. Love can happen anywhere, anytime, regardless of cultural, social, age and status. So blessed those who can feel love, and those who can give love because love can give life more beautiful and colorful.

Then, what's the signs of someone falling in love?

Always wanted to know about him
You see there was something different in him that is interesting to trace
Always wanted to be close to him
The heart beat faster when close to him
Like to stole a glance
Often embarrassed when near him
Always though of him
Always trying to look good in front of him
Like to hide the feeling in front of him
Often fantasizing and dream about him
Willing to sacrifice for him
Suddenly became poetic and likes writing poetry and diary.
When you read this, you remember him. It is a signs that you really are in love with him.

That's the sign of someone when falling in love based my own experienced.